Location, Location

Location was a big consideration as we were making nuptial plans. In the open air? In a familiar favorite venue? On a scenic site? It seemed to make the most sense to wed in Iowa as we and our families are from there. However, we have made our home in various places since leaving Iowa, and most of our close friends are in Chicago, Seattle, Boston or beyond. I wanted to be married somewhere that reflected an important connection for us. There were beautiful places we loved in the Northwest, but that would ultimately be difficult to plan or ask others to attend.

Once we finally made the decision to be married, the correlation to a city hall wedding fell into place. City Hall may not seem particularly personal, but it may have been that universality that attracted us. You see, it had obviously taken us a long time to reach the consensus that we wished to be married. Through the years Nathan and I have come to share what feels, is, a marriage. We simply lacked the terms that made this recognizable for others. So, once we finally decided to buy into the idea, I wanted that. Marriage, is as granted by our shared society. The fact that Massachusetts offers this right to all citizens made us feel even stronger about our city hall decision.

We live outside Boston, but we wanted to be married in the city…perhaps because we already generalize our location, or because of the grandeur, or because it seems more iconic. The current Boston City Hall has a contentious architectural reputation. Many think it's ugly or ineffective, others see it as an important symbol of modern architecture and civil structure. I tend to like that sort of thing, but I had to check it out for myself to make sure it was for us.

It turns out, I love it! It was constructed in the 60s and stands out as an exemplary Brutalist building. Yes, it is firm and blocky, but the repetition, smooth concrete, and the natural light inside is incredible. I was moved, imagining us in that space on our anniversary and wedding day. I walked through and took these photos. I called Nathan from the steps outside and told him it was THE place.

Once we found our spot, everything else started to come together. The warm gray of the concrete, the soft light and shadows cast inside, and the midcentury modern feel inspired the rest of my styling choices. (Which is to come next!)